Hello Athena, I’m writing to share another success story! This came about using the list method, it’s so simple it feels like it shouldn’t work but it does! I’ve manifested someone randomly giving me hundreds of dollars, people seeing me as more attractive, even my SP dreaming about me. Those are all great things and I’m still impressed by them, but that is nowhere near the biggest thing I’ve manifested.
You might remember that my SP and I were struggling. My SP and I have a romantic history, but he broke up with me New Year’s Eve last year and ever since then it’s been a strange journey. He left me to chase after his ex who was leading him on and generally not treating him well, and because he’s somewhat of an obsessive lover he was constantly hurting himself (emotionally) trying to make things work with her. It got so bad that his spiritual teacher forbade him from talking to her again- and that was one of my manifestations, that she would no longer be able to be an issue in his life. During all of this, I am only slightly ashamed to admit I was totally his back burner girl. Whenever he had problems with her I’d listen, we’re on opposite ends of the US but he calls me nearly every day (and sometimes gets a little fussy if we don’t talk!) and all the while he still told me he loved me (I suspect if I directly confronted him about saying this he would have argued it was just platonic love), how attractive I was, stuff like that. I learned to pay it no mind eventually, because we actually had a fight about him treating me so romantically and he insisted that the part of him that romantically loved me didn’t exist anymore.
Would you believe it’s been less than a month since he said that to me and I’m already writing this success story? I’m quite surprised myself, this whole time even though something just kept telling me not to give up, to keep loving him even if it seemed like it would never be mutual, I found myself growing more comfortable with just being friends, and that was the manifestation I wrote down, that we would have a happy and harmonious relationship- not necessarily a romantic one. It made me super happy because even after breaking up we’d still fight a lot, but things were finally truly peaceful between us- and I do wonder how much of that is because the 3rd party is no longer involved- he actually blocked her! I can’t concretely say when the shift happened, but one day it was like waking up in a new reality. SP was being sweet and was making an effort to be charming, but I was feeling such a high from finally being in a good place with him I assumed he was simply feeling the same thing and it was about unbridled joy at being able to truly be friends instead of it being anything romantic.
Since that day things have been escalating. At first it was just more compliments, more “I’m so grateful to have you in my life” and such. Now I must reveal I’ve somewhat tricked you, because I’m sure you thought this was *just* an SP story- but no! I’ve also been manifesting a new living situation because currently I live with my family and it’s not really a good place to be for several reasons. Coincidentally, because my SP no longer feels things can work out with his ex and he only moved where he is to be with her, he’s now moving back to where he was originally- in the state that’s directly above my own. At first he was only saying he would come and visit me when he makes his cross country drive, but it quickly changed to “I could just take you with me on the move, you could live with me and I wouldn’t even charge you rent for a few months”- and manifesting a place where I wouldn’t have to worry about bills at least for a while was another thing on the list!
I’ll admit, I was fearful of getting hurt again, so even with all this evidence I still believed when my SP said he loved me that he was simply meaning as a friend again. After all, he would say “I love you FRIEND” (emphasis by me, not him) and stuff like that, you wouldn’t say it like that if it was romantic right? But the other day was the point of no return, because while we were on the phone as usual he started to “joke” about us being together. It was a little subtle at first, like he told me “my teacher [the one who lives where SP is moving to] said I can’t let any women take me away from him anymore so I told him ‘don’t worry, this time I’m taking the lady with me’.” Basically, it was still something I could deny being romantic, and I did- even asked him who the new girl was and when he would introduce me. You’ll probably laugh to hear what denial I was in, he explicitly told me it was me but even though a tiny part of me knew what he meant I thought surely I’m somehow mistaken and he still only sees me as a friend.
I was able to persist in that delusion until my SP started to get even bolder, and by that I mean he started making comments about marrying me specifically. At the very start it could still be brushed off as just two close friends joking, y’know like how some people will pretend they’re married and have 27 kids and billionaire jobs and stuff just for fun. Then he started getting more serious about it, talking about this venue he really loves, how we wouldn’t have to invite my dad (whom I haven’t spoken to in years) if I didn’t want to even though he comes from a traditional family and it would seem weird to them, how we could have a beautiful ceremony. I tried to just ignore that too, but I didn’t want to leave him without an answer if he was serious, so I worked up the courage the next day to ask if he was truly serious. Without any fluff or joking or anything, he confessed that he was serious, that he was in love with me and wanted to be with me again. He said he couldn’t be with me now because he knows deep down he would still go back to his ex if she somehow came back into his life and he doesn’t want to treat me as a rebound, but also that he’s making every effort to fully and completely move on from her because he wants to be with me and sees a future with me.
And that’s where we are now! Such huge movement, after he was saying something completely different just a few weeks ago. I never doubted manifestation in other things like money or success, but when it comes to love I always thought “the other person’s free will will always override any love manifestation”. How wrong was I! Even though we’re not together officially in the 3D, he’s been super affectionate, loving, basically treating me like a partner already. I’ve already been seeing us in the new place together and it feels so real I know it’ll happen even if it’s not the way we planned it. When I very first started manifesting maybe 6 months ago or so, I imagined us living together, but I always thought it would be way later on. I’m so thrilled with the results, even though I wrote in the discord I was giving up things were still moving in ways I couldn’t see. It’s so crazy how you really do only need to feel it once and let it go to see real results. I really can’t wait to hear/read more success stories, I feel like if even I can be successful then surely everyone else WILL get what they’re seeking! Thank you Athena and Joseph, and for the discord community for their well wishes and love 🤍